Malang Trip: Become an Independent Individual

I will start off this reflection just like how most of us would, which is to talk about how this Malang Trip has gifted me with wonderful and memorable experiences which I have never had before. From making new friends to undergoing thrilling adventures, I realised that I have done a lot of things during this trip (most of them were actually my firsts). These new experiences were definitely very eye-opening and beautiful. One main lesson that I have gained from this trip is: Learning how to be independent.

This Malang Trip is my very first long overseas trip without my family. I have never travelled overseas without my family for a long period of time, especially not for 2 weeks. Thus, I can say that it was quite challenging for me to adapt to the new environment. I had to do so many new things and make some tough decisions, all without my parents, which is something that I am not used to do. I admit that I am quite a dependent person. I often need the presence of one other person with me when I do things, to get a second opinion. So, it definitely took me a while to get used to doing things alone (I mean without my family).

But overall, I like being independent. It is interesting to know how far I can go by myself and how good I am in making decisions in my life. It is sad that I am not able to experience this amazing trip with my loved ones but I am also happy at the same time because through this trip, it has made me become a better and mature individual.

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